Tuesday, November 27, 2018
Gloria and Sid were a special couple I had the privilege of knowing as their primary care physician for many years. What a privilege. Each had the gift of spirit and charm. Together, I knew them as a dynamic running duo who loved each other and their daughters dearly. I heard so many stories —which I will never forget. They complemented one another as much as two people can, even as they (occasionally) bickered a bit about the mundane matters that arise during a visit to the doctor (like did you take your pills or not). But they were obviously quite endearingly attracted to each other. On more than one occasion I caught a glimpse of one staring, most lovingly, into the other’s eye, for acknowledgement, if not affection. Impressive for a seasoned husband and wife. I know they valued and respected each other, supported each other, and were more interested in the other’s well-being more than their own. After Sid’s death, I struggled to support Gloria in her loneliness. It never went away, despite Leslie and Lindsay’s best efforts to support her as the devoted, loving, and appreciative daughters that they are. I know they did their best to include Gloria in their lives, even as she struggled to defend her independence. But if Gloria is now back with Sid, her broken heart will be mended and she will truly rest in peace.
