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Thursday
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December
Visitation at Funeral Home
4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Thursday, December 8, 2016
Jennings, Nulton & Mattle Funeral Home, Inc.
1704 Penfield Road
Penfield, New York, United States
Friday
9
December
Mass
10:00 am
Friday, December 9, 2016
St. Joseph's Church
43 Gebhardt Road
Penfield, New York, United States
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Mark K Murphy posted a condolence
Saturday, December 10, 2016
There is a picture in my phone of Tommy at a recent car show draped across the fender of a pristine 1970 Chevelle SS like a Price Is Right showgirl, not because he ever had any appreciation whatsoever for vintage American muscle cars, but because he understood it was Uncle Mark's favorite. That's how Tommy connected.
Now whenever I see a Chevelle I'll always think of Tommy.
R.I.P. T IV
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robert sweitzer lit a candle
Friday, December 9, 2016
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Alonzo Weatherby lit a candle
Friday, December 9, 2016
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Prayers of strength from my family to yours.
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Stuart Dunn lit a candle
Thursday, December 8, 2016
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Prayers to you and your family thru this difficult time.
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Team 578 - Red Raider Robotics posted a condolence
Thursday, December 8, 2016
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Jack Neville lit a candle
Thursday, December 8, 2016
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Our deepest sympathies to the entire Murphy family. Mark Murphy's IBM team will be making a donation in Tommy's memory to Catholic Family Charities in Rochester.
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Frankie Engelbert lit a candle
Thursday, December 8, 2016
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My thoughts and prayers are with you Tom and the rest of the family.
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Frank Colquitt posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 7, 2016
To the Family of Tommy: I read of the loss of your dear loved one. I would like to share with you, something that I have personally found to be very comforting. It is found in the Bible, at John 5:25-29 and Revelation 21:4,5. These verses tell us that soon Our Creator (Psalm 83:18) is going to bring about a resurrection of our loved ones that are sleeping in death; as well as do away with all causes of suffering, sickness, and even death! Knowing of Our Creator's promises has brought me much comfort during times of loss; and it is my hope that these promises will bring a measure of comfort to your family during this very difficult time. I respectfully ask that you please accept my heartfelt condolences.
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Michelle Hays posted a condolence
Tuesday, December 6, 2016
We are so sorry for the loss of your son. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
-The Hays Family
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Jim, Cathy and Natalie Costanza lit a candle
Monday, December 5, 2016
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Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this very difficult time.
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Crystal lit a candle
Monday, December 5, 2016
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Crystal posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
I want to offer my condolences to the Murphy family, Tommy and I only knew each other from elementary school but he was a dear friend during that time, he was the sweetest kid and had a bright future ahead of him. May he rest in peace.
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Monday, December 5, 2016
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Susan LaPorte posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
There are no words that could express our sincere condolences to all of you but wanted to reach out and let you know that our thoughts and prayers and deepest sympathy are with you all. We will pray for each of you.
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Lori Szulgit and family posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
How very sad to learn of this unfortunate loss of a fine young man. He and your entire family have touched many lives in our Penfield community. Samantha has known Emily for many years beginning at Scribner and Ben and Jack met in Tennis lessons one summer. I pray for peace, comfort and the remembrance of the loving memories he has given to all!
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Sarah Burke posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
Dear Murphy Family,
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy. I am Tommy's Career Services Adviser at RIT and while I didn't know him well, I had met with him several times this fall. He was such a sweet boy and there are no words I can say that will ease your pain but just know that for the short time that we had him at RIT, he made a very positive impact.
We are all thinking of you at this time.
Take care,
Sarah Burke and the RIT Family
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Scott Beck posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
TJ, Alison, Jack, Emily, Tom, Nancy, Mark, Bob & Family:
Our hearts ache with you.
"What is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance." - K. Gibran
Peace and solace to everyone.
Love - Scott, Alma, Annalycia, Natasha, Joan & Chris
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Carol Lynch lit a candle
Monday, December 5, 2016
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Very sorry for your loss, it must be extremely hard having to buy your child. My deepest sympathy.
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Neil Dempsey posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
Alison and Tom,
Please accept my deepest sympathies at this time of such profound loss.
All I can say is that my family will keep you in our thoughts as we hope for peace and healing for you.
Neil and Margaret Dempsey
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Denise Holmes posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
Alison, Tom, Jack & Emily -We are so sad for your loss. Faith, prayers, and love will help you treasure your memories. The following poem has helped me heal. God Bless
God’s Lent Child
"I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine" God said -
For you to love the while he lives
and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
or forty two or three
but will you, till I call him back,
take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
and, should his stay be brief,
you'll have his nicest memories
as solace for his grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
since all from earth return
but, there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over,
in my search for teachers true,
and from the things that crowd life's lane
I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love,
nor think the labour vain,
nor hate me when I come to take
this lent child back again?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord Thy Will Be Done"
for all the joys thy child will bring
the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
we'll love him while we may,
and for the happiness we've known
forever grateful stay.
But, should thy Angels call for him
much sooner than we planned,
we'll brave the grief that comes
and try to understand.
- Unknown
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Barbara green posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
I am sorry about my first post I addressed it as TJ and Cindy I meant Allison. Again I am so sorry about your loss. Barb
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Erika Sambrook Hammond posted a condolence
Monday, December 5, 2016
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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The Lamitie Family lit a candle
Monday, December 5, 2016
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Tom, Alison, Jack and Emily,
We are grief stricken to learn of Tommy’s passing. He was loved by so many and he will never be forgotten.
We truly believe he is now at peace, with God, just as God is with you all.
All our love,
Lynn, Steve, Sean and Taylor
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The Sayegh Family lit a candle
Monday, December 5, 2016
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. God bless all of you.
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Stephen Nobles posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Tom, Alison, and entire Murphy family,
I am so very sorry for this tragic loss. My heart and prayers go out to you all. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Love,
Steve
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Amy Mager posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Alison & family, I am so sorry for your loss. I am struggling to breathe as I read about the loss of your precious son. May you always remember how loved he was & may his memory live in your heart. May your faith in God & community comfort you.
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Barbara Green posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
TJ and Cindy I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Nothing I can say will ease your pain but know you are in my heart and Gods arms. God Bless you all. Barb
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The Hammond family lit a candle
Sunday, December 4, 2016
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Judy Callahan posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. I live in Tucker, Ga. in Joe and Terrie's neighborhood and I know we've met before at their house. Your family will be in my prayers and my heart is so saddened from your loss. I hear Tommy was a wonderful son and I know memories will be cherished. May God guide you through the days ahead.
Judy Callahan
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Vee Garry-Chiulli posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
My dearest Murphy family,
Our hearts are very, very sad for your profound loss! Our dear Lord had his reasons which we cannot understand, but that sweet boy is unbelievably peaceful and contented now. Please remember this for your own consolation.
Gramma and Grampa Murphy's Venice friends,
Larry and Vee
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Jeannine Moran posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Sending you all our heartfelt condolences and prayers. We are incredibly sorry to hear this news.
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Gabriel Rosenberg posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
I'd like to extend my condolences to the Murphy family. It has been a pleasure becoming good friends with Tommy over the past few years, and I have nothing but good memories with him. He was an exemplar man and will be dearly missed.
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Susan Barretta posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Alison,
After years of catching up on your family and seeing photos, I am in shock. Do know that you, Tom, Jack and Emily are very much in my thoughts. I can't say how much I am sorry this happened to you !
Susan Barretta
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Georgia Fountas lit a candle
Sunday, December 4, 2016
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Mary Carpenter posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Alison, Tom, Jack and Emily - words cannot express what you are going through right now. Please know that you are in my prayers and God will hold your family up during this time. I loved working with Tommy at Wickham Farms, we always would chat about school and how things were going. Tommy loved telling me about the classes he was taking and how into them he was. He was a great kid and he will be missed by many!
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The Dawson Family lit a candle
Sunday, December 4, 2016
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Mark Byers posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Cindy and I are so saddened and sorry for you and your family's loss. Tommy was such a great kid and a great friend to Justin. He was always a pleasure to be around and we will miss him greatly.
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Martha Fico posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Alison, I wish I had some words to comfort you. I am so sorry, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Annie Williams posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
Oh my lord, I am so sorry for your loss. Can't imagine how everyone feels, but I am sending you all my love and strength.
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The Cramer Family posted a condolence
Sunday, December 4, 2016
God is holding him now, may the angels come and care for the family
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Mlodzienski family lit a candle
Sunday, December 4, 2016
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Cheryl Thompson lit a candle
Sunday, December 4, 2016
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Matthew Mlodzienski posted a condolence
Saturday, December 3, 2016
Over the last day, I keep catching myself forgetting what happened, seeing things and thinking that I'll show them to him next time I'm home. Its hard to imagine what it will be like visiting home, and not seeing him.
Tommy was one of the first close friends I ever made, definitely the first lifelong friend. Even after I moved away to attend college in a different state, I could always message him whenever I wanted to talk or catch up or had something eating at me. And every time I was home, we always planned a big occasion to get together.
Tommy was many things. A great guy, a better friend, even, to some, a natural leader. He was bright, humorful, fun to be around. He also embodied rarer qualities - he was caring, and above all, responsible. The impact he made on my life can never be replaced.
My heart goes out to his family and his fellow friends. I can't help but wish I'd known, last time I saw him, that it would be last time. I wish I could see him again, even just for a minute, knowing that it was the final chance I'd get to say goodbye.
So... Goodbye, Tommy, and thanks. For everything.
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Enrico Giovannozzi posted a condolence
Saturday, December 3, 2016
Tommy was an incredible person that many knew to be loving, caring, and joyful. His smile had the ability to brighten up anybody’s day, and he always brought himself to help the people around him. We will never forget the person he was, the hope he brought us, and the moments we cherish. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of this wonderful young man. Rest in Peace.
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Austin Lee posted a condolence
Saturday, December 3, 2016
Tommy was a great guy. He was always cheerful, laughing, and making jokes. I remember meeting Tommy when I joined the robotics team. He was a bundle of laughs and bright energy, mixed with a little bit of dark humor, but that was Tommy.
In high school, we formed a circle of friends. They're my go to group whenever I want to do anything. I wish I was able to hang out with them more and I know it won't be the same without him.
He was one of my best friends from back home and it's so strange just to even think that he's gone.
Thank you Tommy for everything. The laughs, the real talks, and most importantly, your friendship. You'll be missed dearly
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