James R. Wassenaar went to be with his Lord on April 13th, 2026, at the age of 87. Born in Whitensville, MA, to Jacob and Elizabeth Wassenaar. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Jacqueline, of 49 years. He is survived by his beloved wife of 13 years, JoAnne B. Frelier. Son, James (Mary); daughter, Wendy (Jonathan); grandchildren, Jacob and Joshua; step-children, Calvin A (Laurie) Frelier, Andrew P. Frelier(Shawn-deceased); step-grandchildren, Audrey, Mae, Nathaniel, Luke, Johannah, Kathleen, Dana, and Marlane. All of us who knew him, family, friends, were truly enriched by his life and faith in the Lord.

He attended Calvin College and Michigan State University, where he earned a Masters Degree in Higher Education. His life work was at SUNY at Oswego where he retired as Vice President of Student Affairs after over three decades of service. While at SUNY Oswego, he impacted numerous students lives through his leadership, overseeing building of student housing, mentoring and advocating for students daily, with the realized goal of fostering an exceptional University experience. His passions included attending to his lakeside property and gardens, nature walks, attending performing art events, photography, collecting, and sunsets. His work ethic was on display daily as he tended to whatever nature brought to his day on the beautiful shores of Lake Ontario. 

A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00AM, on May 2nd at the Christian Reformed Church (2750 Atlantic Ave, Penfield, NY 14526). A reception will follow. 

James' burial will be held on June 13th, 11:30 a.m., Oswego Town Cemetery, 242. Cemetery Road, Oswego, NY.  

Donations may be made to Heritage Christian Services or Rochester Christian School Foundation, 260 Embury Road, Rochester, NY 14625.  We will miss him greatly, but rejoice in resurrection hope. He had unwavering faith in his Lord and Savior.